Inmodernsociety,thereisoftenahckofunderstandingbetweenparentsandchildren.Purentsdislikewhattheirchildrenthinkanddo,whilechildrenoftencomplainthattheirparentscannotunderstandthem.Thisisoftencalledgenerationgap.
Therearesomereasonsfortheexistenceofgenerationgap.First,theenvironmentinwhichyoungpeoplenowlivingisquitedifferentfromthatoftheirparents.Therefore,theyoftenholddifferentopinionsonvariousproblenasinlife.Second,disparityinagealsoleadstomisunderstanding.Youngpeoplewanttodoeverythingastheylike,whileolderpeopleoftencanthelpinterferingwhentheythinkwhattheyoungpeoplearedoingiswrong.Thisinevitablyleadstodisharmony.
Inrnyopinion,generationgapcanbebridgedaslongasbothparentsandchildrenarewillingtomakeefforts.Theymayhaveanopentalkandtelleachotherwhattheythinkaboutcertainproblems.Theyshouldbeconsiderateenoughtorealizethateachgenerationhasitsownadvantagesanddisadvantages.Theiropennessandconsiderationprobablywillresultinamuchbetterrelationshipbetweenpurentsandchildren.
Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.
Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgapexistseverywhere.Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.
Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan’tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”.
Thus,thegenerationgapbecomesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon’twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan’t.
So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
Generationgapreferstothemisunderstandingbetweentheoldandyoung.
Thetermcameintofashionafterthe1980s.However,inrecentyears,thephenomenonisgettingmoreandmorefierce.
Howdoesgenerationgapcomeintobeing?Thefirstreasonisthatthetwogenerationshavegrownupindifferentages,thustheyhavedifferentattitudestowardlife.
Secondly,duetohavinglittleincommonwitheachother,theyareunwillingtositdownandtalkfacetoface.
Besides,asmodernlifeissostressful,bothofthemaresobusywiththeirstudyorworkthattheyhavenotenoughtimetoexchangetheirideas.
Tobridgethegenerationgapisnoteasyatall,butwecandosomethingtoshortenit.
Foronething,childrenshouldrespecttheirparentsaswellasaccepttheirgoodadvice.Foranother,parentsshouldnotonlyshowtheirloveandcaretothekids,butalsosupporttheirgoodlifeview.
Aslongastheoldandyoungcanunderstandeachother,itwouldbemoreharmoniousinfamilyandworld.
代沟之我见MyViewonGenerationGap
Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgapexistseverywhere.Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan’tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”.Thus,thegenerationgapbeesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon’twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan’t.So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
Inthemodernsocienty,thereismisunderstandingbetweenparentsandtheirchildren.Theparentsalwaysconsiderthattheirchildrendothewrongthings,andtheirchildrenalwayscomplain,theirparentsdontunderstandthem,whichleadstothegenerationgap.
Therearetworeasons.Firsttheyoungmanliveindifferentenvironmentsfromtheirparents,sotheyalwayhavedifferentideasaboutproblems.Secondlytheparentsalwaypreventtheirchildrenfromdoingtheirfavouritethingswhichoftencauseafight.
Ithinkthegenerationgapcanbehandlediftheparentsandchildrentrytheirbest.Theycanhaveopentalksandtellideastoeachother.Theyshouldrealizeeverygenerationhavetheirownstrongandweakpoints.Onlyinthisway,abetterrelationshipwillbebuilt.
Accordingtothevarietyofsocialbackground,personalexperienceandpersonalemotion,differerntpeoplehavedifferentopinionstowardsthings.Thus,thereisnodoubtthatgenerationgapexistseverywhere.Wealwaysfindthattherearebigdifferencesbetweenusandtheoldgeneration.Wealwaysregardtheoldareoutdated,whiletheythinkusarecrazy.Theycan’tbearthedresswelike,thefashionwepursueorevenourchildishthinking.Instead,wecouldputupwiththeirstandpatthingkingandtheir“feudalrulers”.
Thus,thegenerationgapbecomesmoreandmoreobviousandserious.However,whydon’twerealizethatopinionscanbechanged,whilepeoplecan’t.So,wecanthinkinanotherway,learntoaccept.Itiscertainthatwecannarrowthegenerationgaptoliveamoreharmoniouslife.
Nowadays,manyyoungpeoplehavenewideaswhicharedifferentfromtheirparents.Theyargueevenfightwiththeirparentsfromtimetotimeonlybecausetheywouldn’tliketodowhattheirparentswantto.Inmyopinions,childrenandtheirparentsshouldunderstandandrespecteachother,soTherearemanyreasonsforthisphenomenon.Firstly,youngpeoplehavedifferentlifestyle,differenteducationanddifferentfriendsfromtheirparents,differentagewillshapeanewgeneration.Secondly,theyoungarestilltooyoungtofacethesocietybuttheydon’trealize,sotheyoftenthinkwhatevertheydoisright,whichleadsthemnotlistentotheirparents’someusefulandvaluableadvice.Finally,someparentsonlyorderchildrentodosomethingratherthandiscusswiththem.
AsfarasI’mconcern,everybodyshouldjoinhandstosolvethisproblem.Bothsidesshouldrespecttheother,whenparentshavemorecommunicationswiththeyoung,manyconflictswillnothappen.Similarly,ifchildrencanunderstandtheirparents’originalintention,theywillnotalwaysoppositetheirparents.
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