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然而这种失望，不仅是不公平的，也是破坏性的。感受到父母的失望，孩子们开始相信，实际上，缺乏一些东西，而这让他们更值得钦佩和尊重。给孩子们机会开发新资源，扩大眼界，发现自己做事情的乐趣，另一方面，帮助孩子开发一个自信的自我感觉有能力和有趣的人。