Peopleoftenlosepatienceanddonothingelsebecausetheydon"thaveagoodhabit.Weallencountermanythingsinlife,justliketrees,flowers,andgrass,countless.Perhapsyoumayfeelhappyaboutit,oryoumayfeelannoyed,butit"snotimportant.Theimportantthingisthataslongasweencounterit,weshouldpersevereandstrivetocompleteituntiltheend.Althoughpersistencemaynotnecessarilyleadtogains,failuretoperseverecanleadtonogains.Youreffortsaredirectlyproportionaltotheoutcome.Thereisnosuchthingaspiefallingfromthesky,andthereisnosuchthingasafreelunchintheworld.Everythingrequiresyourowneffortstosucceed.Don"talwayslosepatiencejustbecauseyouaretiredofaboringlife,andjustgiveuphalfway.Youshouldthinkaboutwhatyourcharacterisandwhatyourgoalsare,Peoplehavethoughts,areindependentandcanchangetheenvironment.Noonewillrestrainyou,onlyyoucanrestrainyourself.Ibelieveeveryonehasheardthesayingthatthestageisasbigastheheart.
Thissentenceisnotanillusion,butisveryinlinewithourreality.Humanbehaviorisrelatedtotheirownthoughts.Everythinginanormalpersoniscontrolledbytheirownbrain,andtheywillnotdothingsarbitrarily.Ifyourthoughtsareadvancedenoughandyourbrainisdevelopedenough,thenyourbehaviorwillnotbeordinaryorboring.Weneedtokeepthebraininnovating,searchingandexploring.Humansarethemostadvancedcreaturestodate,soweshouldnotfollowthewaverace,Instead,oneshouldseektheirowngoalsandstriveforthem.
Patienceisnotsomethingthatcanbeachievedinjustafewwords.Patiencerequiresaperson"swillpower.Itdependsonwhetheryouvaluethistaskandhowconfidentyouareinyourheartthatyoucanaccomplishit.Ifyoujustuseyourlips,thehopeofsuccessisverysmall.Itissaidthataslongasoneworkshard,anironrodcanbegroundintoaneedle.Withenoughpatienceandperseveranceineverything,therewillalwaysbegains.Thepathtosuccessmaybebumpy,butitisalsofulloffun.Aslongasyoulearntoobserveandlistenattentively,yourpatiencewillbedevelopedunconsciously.Threedaysoflearningissuperficial,andthreeyearsoflearningisKungFu.Therefore,youneedtofindyourownpathtomoveforward.Learntopersist,andcultivatepatience;Learnpatienceandsucceed.
Mymotherisofmediumheight,notfatorthin,withfairskin,alongheadofshinyblackhair,apairofsparklingeyesasbrightasblackgemstones,andadeepdimpleonherfacewhenshesmiles.Peoplewhoknowhersaysheisavirtuousandpatientperson.
Indeed,mymotherisaverypatientperson.Myeyesarecongenitalamblyopia.WhenIwasthreeyearsold,mymothertookmetoanophthalmichospitalinGuangzhoufortreatment.Thedoctorsaidthatamblyopiatreatmentshouldtakeplaceoveralongperiodoftime,withonehourofamblyopiatraininginthemorningandevening,andafollow-upcheckeverytwotothreemonths.Inordernottotravelbackandforthbetweenhomeandthehospital,mymothersavedmoneyandboughtmeatreatmentdevice.Shetrainswiththedeviceathomeeveryday.EverytimeIdoamblyopiatraining,mymotherpatientlyaccompaniesmeandurgesmetodoitseriously.However,overtime,doingthesamethingeverydaymakesmefeelveryirritable,thinkingofbeinglazyandsometimesgettingangry,crying,andfindingvariousreasonstoevade,Atthispoint,mymotherwouldpatientlysaytome,"Baby,let"ssticktoitagain,itwillbeokayafterawhile,andwewon"thavetodoitthen!"Mymothersaidalotofgoodthingstocoaxmeandencouragemetofinishthetraining.
Sometimeswhenwehavetogoonalongjourney,mymotheralsoneedstobringthetreatmentdevicewithher,hopingthatmyeyeswillrecoverquickly.Inordertokillboredom,mymotheralsoboughtmanystorybooks.EverytimeIdoamblyopiatraining,mymotherwilltellmeastory,eitheraboutmymother"schildhood,orsingtome
Inthisway,wepersistedinthetreatmentofamblyopiaforalmostthreeyears,andoureffortsdidnotdisappointthosewhowerewillingto,andfinallywecuredtheamblyopia.Thankstomymother"spatientcompanionship,Ipersevered.
Mymotherissuchapatientperson.Iwanttosaytoher,Mom,thankyouforyourpatienceandcompanionship.YouhaveworkedhardandIloveyou!
Underthelight,apieceofQingtianstonewasshiningbrightly.Theroundsealscript,blackbrownlines,andcolorfulropesseemedtobeshiningbrightly.
Recently,Ihavebeenfascinatedbysealcutting.Thebluestonesandacarvingknifeseemtoinheritclassicalculture,thericepaperandalittlevermilionseemtoflowwiththebeautyofsealcutting,andeverystrokeseemstobesealedwithancientcharm.
ItookaQingtianstone,asealcuttingknife,andspreadapieceofricepapertoimmersemyselfinthecharmofsealcutting.Withonehandpressingonthebluestone,andtheotherholdingasmallknife.Thetipoftheknifelightlyscratchedthestonesurface,causingashallowwhitemarkandsplashingofstonefoam.Originally,sealcuttingwasnotasdifficultasIimagined,andIseemedtohavesomesmallpride.Next,asimilarfieldshapeisengraved.Inamoment,TianYihengwascarvedintoit,butatthatsmallbend,theforcewastooh2,andthepentipflewout,leavingadeepgrindingmarkonthestonesurface,makingthebeautifulandsmoothstoneabitugly.
Ifeltalittlelost,casuallytakingpolishingpaperandsmoothingthestonesurface,butitdidn"terasemydisappointment.
Grippingtheknifeagain,engrossedincarving,andsoonarrivedatthecorneragain.Gentlyrotatethebluestone,causingthebladetostrokealongwithit.Thewholeworldseemstobequiet,exceptforthebladeedintothestone,andthestonefoambouncedoutwithagentlesound.Thetipoftheknifegraduallybroughtmeclosertothecorner,andeverythingseemedtobesmooth.Suddenly,thebladeflewoutagainandplungeddeeplyintothestone.Isuddenlyfeltabitataloss,andthenIwasirritableandspewingout.Whyisitsodifficulttocarvestones!
Somehow,Isawthefinishedproductatthecornerofthetable.Underthelight,theQingtianstonewasshiningquietly.Theroundsmallsealscript,blackandbrownthreads,andcolorfulropesallshinebrightly.Suddenly,Iseemedtoseethepersonwhowascarvingthestone,patientlyandcalmlycarvingthestone,socalmandnotimpatient.Iseemedtounderstandsomethingandpickeduptheknifeagain
IheldupthestoneIhadcarved,andthelightfell,coatingthestonewithalayerofgoldenlight.Qingshiseemedtohavecometolife,andIhearditsheartbeat.Thewords,hearts,andmeaningsofcarvingareallsosimilar-patience.
Originally,thereisaspirit,apatience,asuccess,called-don"trush,takeyourtime.